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Friday, November 11, 2011

EMPLOYEE WORKPLACE CONFLICT QUESTIONNAIRE


Employee Questionnaire
Where are you on the Workplace Conflict Scale?

Consider each of the questions in the self-test below, then circle the appropriate number to indicate how often the described behavior happens.


Does the person you’re
having trouble with:

NEVER
NOT
OFTEN
OFTEN
ALWAYS/
ALMOST
ALWAYS
Ignore you, not say hello when you greet them, not return phone calls or emails?
 0
0
1
2
Dismiss what you’re saying or “put you down” while alone or in the presence of others?
0
1
2
3
Sabotage you or make you look foolish, such as by “forgetting” to tell you about a meeting or, if the person is your boss, set you up to fail by placing impossible demands on you?
0
2
3
4
Spread rumors, lies and half-truths about you?
0
2
3
4
Frequently act impatient with you, treating you like you’re incompetent?
0
1
2
3
Blame and criticize you?
0
1
2
3
Try to intimidate you by interrupting, contradicting and glaring at you and giving you the silent treatment?
0
1
2
3
Tease, ridicule, insult or play tricks on you, especially in front of others?
0
2
3
4
Always insist on getting his/her own way and never apologize?
0
1
2
3
Yell, point their finger, swear, insult or threaten you or call you names?
0
2
3
4
TOTAL SCORE









  
Add up the numbers to get your total score. There is a possible total score of 33.
Naturally, the higher the score, the more pronounced the behavior.


LEVEL 1: If your score is 5 or below.
LEVEL 2: If your score is between 6 and 19.
LEVEL 3: If your score is 20 to 25.
LEVEL 4 or 5: If your score is 25 or higher.

This questionnaire is just a sample of the types of the interpersonal conflicts that commonly occur in the workplace.  It does not every type of conflict there is.  For example, many of the unlawful anti-discrimination actions (including racism, sexual harassment, etc.) are not listed here.  If you do not see information regarding your personal conflict here, review the post “Overview of the Different Levels on The Conflict Scale” to find the level that you believe most accurately describes your situation. Then return to the blog site and choose your solutions accordingly.

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

WORKPLACE CONFLICT QUESTIONNAIRE FOR EMPLOYERS



Workplace Conflict Questionnaire
for Managers and Employers


What kind of work environment are you promoting? What level are you on the Workplace Conflict Graph?

Please answer these questions honestly

People focus

Sometimes
Most of the time
Always
Do you give people personal responsibility?




Do you actively seek out the views of others?




Are you committed to team development?




Do you instill confidence in others?




Do you encourage open feedback and debate?




Personal integrity
Sometimes
Most of the time
Always

Do you do what you say you’ll do?




Do you show respect to everyone?




Can you say sorry when you’ve made a mistake?




Are you open and honest about your mistakes and do you learn from them?




Are you fair in all your dealings with others?




Visibility
Sometimes
Most of the time
Always

Do you actively promote an open door approach?




Do you champion a culture of respect and dignity?




Are you available to listen to the views of others?




Are you prepared to talk to customers and clients about the need for respect and dignity at work?




Have you put building a culture of dignity and
respect on your main agenda?




Promoting standards

Sometimes
Most of the time
Always

Do you establish individual and team goals?




Do you give personal recognition to others?




Do you use feedback and coaching constructively?




Do you schedule regular time for improving
Inter-personal relationships?




Are you constantly looking for opportunities
for improvement?




Challenging the status quo
Sometimes
Most of the time
Always

Do you openly challenge unacceptable behavior?




Do you seek out prejudiced attitudes?




Do you critically examine policies and procedures
 to make sure they’re fair to everyone?




How did you do?
Add up the checks in each column







TOTAL checks in each column







Multiply the number of checks in each column by:
0
2
5




Find your OVERALL TOTAL:
 (Maximum total score possible 125)

If you scored:

101–125: You have excellent skills in creating a culture of dignity and respect.
(LEVEL 1 on Workplace Conflict Scale)

76–100: You have reasonable skills in creating a culture of dignity and respect.
(LEVEL 2 on Workplace Conflict Scale)

51–75: You have some awareness of requirements but significant effort is still needed.
(LEVEL 3 on Workplace Conflict Scale)

0–50: You don’t yet understand what is needed to create a culture of dignity and respect.
(LEVEL 4 & 5 on Workplace Conflict Scale)

Overview of The Different Levels On The Conflict Scale

LEVEL 1:   Everyday Stuff


These are the normal day-to-day differences that arise from the fact that the workplace is essentially a gathering of many individuals with unique needs, ideas, values, beliefs and goals.  So long as these conflicts are not allowed to degenerate, then the cost to both employer and employee is minimal. 

LEVEL 2:   Uncomfortable


In some instances, the normal day-to-day differences begin to transform into conflict of a more invasive nature.  At this point conflict is not caused by differences in values, goals, etc. but instead by:  bullying; jealousy, rumors, discrimination; etc. Sometimes, it is just a matter of employees feeling under-appreciated or that they are not getting any acknowledgment for a job well done. Though there is not much cost to the employer at this point, there is tremendous emotional distress in the form of stress, depression, anxiety, etc. to the employee. 
 
LEVEL 3:  Beyond Normal Skills


As conflict escalates, the emotional distress the employees experience begin to rise and in many instances, they spend more and more time away from the workplace.  In so doing, there is increased use of personal time and sick days.  As a result, the conflict begins to negatively affect the employer financially.  In order to resolve the conflict quickly, conflict resolution skills beyond those we use in normal everyday life are needed.  Examples include: peer mediation, facilitation managerial mediation; peer review panel, etc. Managers and employees who are versed in basic negotiation strategy are also helpful at this stage. As you can see, employers who have conflict management policies in place will be at an advantage when conflict reaches this level.  


LEVEL 4:  Formal Processes


If Level 3 conflict resolution attempts prove unsuccessful, and the conflict becomes more ingrained, then formal grievance processes are begun at this level.  These may include: investigation, arbitration, mediation and/or legal proceedings. Prior to becoming entrenched in a time-consuming and costly lawsuit, some employers tend to seek other, out-of-court means of resolving the conflict.  Those with financial means utilize: outside independent mediators or ombudsmen; and/or lawyers who provide preventive counsel.  Because of the loss of time and effort of the employees involved and money spent to deal with this matter the cost of the conflict to the employer sharply increases at this level.  As we see, there continues to be enormous emotional distress for the employee.




LEVEL 5:   Intractable Wars



Without some sort of effective conflict resolution, employer and employees are involved in a lose-lose situation.  At this point, it is highly possible that Level 4 processes are still ongoing.  It is also a possibility that formal proceedings have concluded but the parties involved are still employed by the organizations and must essentially continue working together.  Other employees may have gotten involved by taking sides, etc. It is clear that regardless of the outcome of the formal proceedings, the underlying conflict is still occurring. Given that the costs are enormous for both employers and employees, all the parties involved must be willing to consider more stringent approaches to get rid of the conflict… quite possibly even termination.